I've been to war and back. Seen things that no young lady should have to see. Done things that would cause my parents to disown me. And yet, I'ld rather be in Iraq. Life is so much simpler over there. Either you do what you need to do, or you die. No middle man, no boarder line, and no bullshit. Being in the military has brought my more heart ache than anything else. It's strange how people offer so much advise that is un wanted and un needed, but when your in a tight spot they either don't know or don't want to know how to help you unless it means making them look good.